My secret pal has revealed herself as
5elementknitr and I have received the final package which proved exceptionally suitable for me.

To start with gingerbread man soap, beads and needle holders. The hook is a stitch saver which 5elementknitr makes and sells through Etsy and just look at that.. the Yarnharlot calendar 'Never Not Knitting'! How brilliant is that?

Next, as well as personalising my stitchsaver she knitted me a pair of Fetchings in a lovely bluey colour. There are 2 bars of chocolate (well 1and a half now) and the black nylon is actually a tote bag which has folded up to nothing and hidden in a pocket in my bag. Actually so well hidden I forgot about it today and accepted a plastic devil in Tesco - I did pass that one on to a library user for book transportation though.

And then there was yarn! Soft, soft thick alpaca for a warm scarf to be got ready for the next cold snap. The sock yarn in the very beautiful colours is called Aspen and then there is a little kit to knit an assortment of designs with beads.
My thanks to 5elementknitr. She has been a great pal. Go and read her blog.